One of the most common things you will hear in your twenties, especially if you're a senior in college or still in school are the following:
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What relationships and absence has taught me: for women who think they are difficult to love2/21/2016 In the passed weeks, I have shifted myself in so many different mindsets, personalities and sometimes I begin to think I am bipolar. As my boyfriend sometimes refers these 'episodes' as "my period is coming, the womanhood..hormones thing".
Its kind of funny when we make jokes about it. We laugh as women about the hard parts of life, especially the things that men don't experience as we do. For a woman, everything comes with different spectrums depending on your mood for a certain day. What most men don't understand is that sometimes we are not in our period, we weren't having a bad day at work, and maybe for a majority of us (HOPEFULLY) are not really bipolar. Sometimes the way we feel about every single thing is a constant struggle that not even us can manage, let alone you expect us to have it under control. For the women who might be thinking they are hard to love and to the men who think these women are difficult to love as well, read along. "When position, hierarchy, and ego leaves no space for humbleness, equality and happy faces."
Sometimes, we all need a reminder or different view of how we look at things. We all need love, and well.. love needs us too! If you want to know more if you are attracting the right person, or if there are 'warning signs' in your relationship that you might be able to fix..read along! Valentine's Day was last week and I can't believe it went by so quickly! Its one of my favorite holidays because you see so many happy couples, smiling faces, and just so much love being spread around. When it comes to Valentine's Day, we all get crazy and want the day spent with someone as our valentine. Let's get real, you need a valentine through out the other 364 days of the year too, but are you attracting the right type of person? What makes people compatible with each other, and most importantly how do you keep a relationship happy, and how do you know when you've found 'the one'? Too many questions, not enough answers. Today I will be sharing my thoughts on how with the help of a few changes and adjustments, you just might find your catch. Thought of the week: We are very good lawyers for our own mistakes, but very few good judges for the mistakes of others. One thing that I have experienced in the last years is the down falls that comes along when you work hard to become successful in what you do. For most people in our society, everything that does not go their way comes along with envy. When you do in fact succeed, you will get people who will dislike you for a lot of reasons, and sometimes without a reason. It deals with the most part of success. Sometimes people you even grow up with, who lived in the same neighborhoods as you did, went to same school as you did, you hung out with them, and suddenly they start treating you so different, because of your success. I am not implying that you should be treated on a silver plate, but people in general as humans get uncomfortable with the idea of someone else moving forward, faster than them. and then it comes with the other part of success, because sometimes in my point of view, no matter how far you go and how successful you get, people still see you as that kid from that neighborhood. It has that stigma that comes along with it. So why we as a society can't ever push each other forward instead of holding each other back? Why do we teach our children to be the competitors of each other instead of working together? |
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My name is Keyla and I am a second year university student studying social work. I blog about social media, lifestyle, health, beauty, love, relationships, career and student life-hacks. Leave a comment and give my articles a ❤️ or 👍🏻 and don't forget to share to show your support. 😘, Keyla Publication Dates
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